Returning Without Box

And that pride

When we bother with someone, you often only find two options "give" or be proud (no matter that not we be fixing a lot to say), if we choose the first we can improve or worsen the talking things, reach any agreement and dependent on it could solve the problem. But when we decided to implement the "now if you want to talk, I look" very probably all we will do will make things worse, since you can be proud to become the child to act more to a problem and less correct, because Throw in luck you will have in the other person is not, and the time taken to turn down a hairline this pride in order to "make peace".

Among friends

Typically, on occasion when we are upset with a friend @, we can not be the step we take to fix things and worse if the other feels the same way, as I was saying, "here's who suffer most are the mutual friends who are ending being conciliatory, and the absence of a reconciliation we lost a great friend.

The typical "if he tells me I do not either, he needs total more than me than I of him."

In the family

On these occasions are the most painful. Well, depending on the relationship of each family, the turn away from them, being ignored in the roof, imagine if you take pride @ being your dad and one day get upset, and the character only be loaded without speaking. And as a bonus it even seems that we do our best to see who "hold" more angry. Well, how are we going to give in and let us see fragile to a certain situation?

Even knowing it is wrong and its consequences, we often hear the sage advice of "you are proud @ and do not do not see where you're dying for him / her, convince costing you. " And we take pride as a mask "helps us" not to be weak to others, without realizing that it can even hurt, and of course The more hurt others.

may serve you to become stronger, but like every coin has two sides, and we must be aware of the consequences that will bring ponérnosla .

"how proud you are?